Saturday, November 29, 2025

A Thanksgiving Story

(Originally published 11/20/17)

While duly employed in another line of work more than two decades ago, my boss, Richie, spotted a couple of our regular customers, Bud and Carol, dining in a Nathan’s fast-food restaurant. At the time, he was cruising down the well-traveled Central Avenue in Yonkers and noticed them—courtesy of the place’s paneled glass windows adjoining the busy thoroughfare—seated at a table. Were it not for the fact that it was Thanksgiving evening, this sighting would not have been worth mentioning.

Often a stoic who played his compassionate side close to the vest, Richie nonetheless found something poignant at the spectacle of this long-married couple eating at Nathan's on Thanksgiving Day. After all, Bud and Carol were pleasant enough folks who spent a fair chunk of change shopping in our store every week. Bud was retired and significantly older than his wife, and they had no children. That is, if you did not count their menagerie of animal friends, which included, at one time or another, everything from minks to ferrets to monkeys. And, yes, they had multiple cats and dogs, too. Anyway, Richie thought it would be a nice gesture to invite Bud and Carol to our business’s upcoming Christmas party, which he did. They happily accepted and a grand time was had by all.

Fast forward twenty-five years and Bud and Carol are still among the living. They are, however, experiencing financial woes. Money troubles that Bud never envisioned when he retired after a lengthy and productive working career. Considering Bud and Carol’s ample brood of mouths to feed—and the amount of money they spent on them for food, supplies, and medical care—we were all convinced that Bud had quite a tidy nest egg and would never, ever be sweating the bucks.

Last winter, however, old Bud materialized at Richie’s new place of business. He requested a helping hand—i.e., a cash allowance to pay off a large and overdue fuel bill. It was a brutal winter and Richie, who had not seen the man in years, did not have the heart to say no. It was a distressing tale of woe that a former professional and proud man—who was now closing in on ninety years of age—did not have enough money to pay basic household bills. Bud informed Richie that the recent economic meltdown did a real number on his retirement portfolio. It is a cautionary tale, I guess, that all too many of us may face in retirement—if we make it that far and are pushing ninety.

Looking back on it now, I suppose that Bud and Carol’s past Nathan’s Thanksgiving repast was a happier, less stressful dining experience than the one they will be having this year. And as a postscript to this story: That sprawling, iconic Nathan’s restaurant on Central Avenue was bulldozed a few years ago to make room for yet another ubiquitous strip mall. There is a much smaller, decidedly pedestrian Nathan’s in the mix of stores on that hallowed ground, so Bud and Carol can dine there this Thanksgiving if they so desire and if, of course, they can afford it.

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